Category: Let's talk
O..k the reason for this topic, is because I got in an argument, because somebody stuck there where it didn't belong.
What do you guys think about people getting in to your buesness?
I kinda hate to say this I hate it to but you do it sometimes too.
I know I use to at one time, but it's just better if I keep to my stuff to myself.
Let me preface what I want to say by letting people know that I don't want to offend anyone by the following, well kind of in a small way I do. I really hate it when you're looking for a job, and someone such as your VR counselor says to you, or even implies, that you absolutely have to follow their suggestions and their suggestions only. Such is the case with me. I think this greatly restricts peoples' lives.
I think it's rude and disrespectful. When I was in residential school I was always being followed and people would listen in on my phone conversations with my parents. They also made sure no boy would go out with me by spreading lies that weren't true.
I know all about this one. I have just recently had a big conflict with some of my neighbors who live in this apartment complex. One of them decided to call CPS and make up a whole bunch of lies about me and even tried to say something about my brother which was absolutely not true. the accusations that she made about me were so incredibly messed up. She tried to say I use drugs, which totally isn't true, that my brother molests my daughter and I leave my daugher with him knowing full well that this is happening, that I'm bipolar and that I don't take my medication, which I find kind of funny because I've never been diagnosed as bipolar by a doctor, and the list goes on. She also said I let my daughter run around this complex and that I don't watch her and I leave her unattended for hours at a time. I can tell you that I'm probably one of the most careful parents around here because I am blind and need to know where she is at all times.
I don't know why this person said the things they did, but I know they wanted to hurt me in any way they could and try to get my daughter taken away. I have no idea. Anyway, the CPS worker totally disregarded everything that was said against me and now everything seems to be ok again.
So, people have no business poking around in other peoples business, although we've probably all said some stupid things to hurt others at one time or another. And I know that we have all had people saying things about us that are better left unsaid. I guess it's just a matter of being careful of who we choose to talk to about our personal business.
can I bash your neighbors head in?
Sure. Go at it! Havve fun!
sorry all - as if ya can't tell - I am looking at past messages cos maybe I'm slightly bored Lol anyway on to the topic, I think it depends largely on the situation but for the most part, I try not to get involved or stuck in the middle of people. I guess i use to do it when I was younger and it got me into trouble. Now sometimes I feel stuck in a situation and I get annoyed when my friends don't seem to want to help me, but i think when it comes down to it, the problem is between me and the other person so we need to deal with it. at least we can feel more rewarded when the prob sorts out, knowing that we solved it ourselves.
Canhnhnhnhnhnhnhnhn I joinhnhnhnhnhnhnhn inhnhnhnhnhn? I'd like to schchchchchchchchchchmhmhmhmhmhmhmhmhmackhkhk his face inhnhnhnhnhnhnhnhn to! Luckily, I haven't had anything that bad happen to me. It's mostly people saying watch out!, or blind kid coming through! And that's only when I'm in school. At home, my parents are over protective of me, which is a pain, because I would havhvhvhvhvhvhvhve liked to get a jobhbhbhbhbhbhbhbhb this summhmhmhmhmhmhmhmmer, but they wouldnhnhnhn't let me! How annoying! I was responding to charisma's message above...
hmmm, my parents are not overprotective. Thats a pain. I think... that you should tell them that you can do things by yourself. I think for doing such stuff like walking by myself and things like that... and without worring, I always try to smile when I came across an eror or mistake. That way people think really diferent. I remember when someone at school, when we were going to a trip one of the teachers... said: "this kid is sick. He cannot see and require a very special treat". Hello? earth to you? or you to earth... smile> who said that?
it really pises me of. I don't know why he said "sick" I am blind, not handycapped.
I know how a lot of you feel there; my experience is a bit different though. My main issue concerns my mom constantly asking me about stuff that goes on concerning my bf, and it really gets on my last nerve.
She wants to constantly ask me a ton of questions about something that's going on in his life, and it's like, why can't she just ask him if that's something she's absolutely dying to know about?
I'm not his messenger. Either that, or I feel that lately, she trashes him behind his back, but when he's around she acts like she's cool with him, and all he's ever done is done his best to respect her, and this is all he gets in return?